Comments on: you broke my heart http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/ Conveying my inner thoughts and dreams Tue, 13 Sep 2011 15:01:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: mrs lazaro http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-2470 mrs lazaro Thu, 19 Mar 2009 04:29:06 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-2470 who is she...? maybe its also a blessing in disguise because you didn't ended with such a B**CH.... who is she…?
maybe its also a blessing in disguise because you didn’t ended with such a B**CH….

]]> By: Immortal Unica http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-423 Immortal Unica Sat, 17 Jan 2009 10:03:56 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-423 It has been 2 months since you last posted this article. How are you doing now? It took me 9 months before I was able to let go of the 'one' I thought was for me. It took me 9 months before I was able to throw out all the artistic drawings and paintings he made for me. 9 months before I was able to break into smithereens the ring that he gave as a gift and 9 months before I started living my life. I remember, a few days after the break up, the intensity of the pain and I just had faith that one day, someday, all the pain will be gone. And 9 months later? Boy am I right! It's all gone. The memories are still their but the hurting has stopped. :-) I hope that in God's perfect time, you'd find the one for you. It could still be her or NOT, but we'll never know. The important thing is you're still 'standing up' now. :-) It has been 2 months since you last posted this article. How are you doing now?
It took me 9 months before I was able to let go of the ‘one’ I thought was for me. It took me 9 months before I was able to throw out all the artistic drawings and paintings he made for me. 9 months before I was able to break into smithereens the ring that he gave as a gift and 9 months before I started living my life. I remember, a few days after the break up, the intensity of the pain and I just had faith that one day, someday, all the pain will be gone. And 9 months later? Boy am I right! It’s all gone. The memories are still their but the hurting has stopped. :-) I hope that in God’s perfect time, you’d find the one for you. It could still be her or NOT, but we’ll never know. The important thing is you’re still ‘standing up’ now. :-)

]]> By: Biatch-trice http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-93 Biatch-trice Fri, 07 Nov 2008 12:28:11 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-93 Hey, I feel your pain. I felt the same pain before. So I said, "I won't allow this to happen to me anymore." But then it happend again, and again and again. So the "F", di ba? I put the blame on him, I quite refused to acknowledge that there was something wrong on my side. Until, I thought about looking at things from a third person's perspective - the viewer, the uninvolved one, the audience. I then realized that, damn, may kasalanan din pala ako. I HAVE BEEN possesive. I have been paranoid. I have been insensitive. I have been way too protective. I made my partner(s) loose their confidence in me kasi I was too scared of loosing them - I showed them something different, imbes of what I really intended them to see and feel. I hope you wouldn't mind if I quote: "a friend told me that if you found a love that made you change in a good way, hold on tight to that love for its the kind of love that is worth keeping..." - maybe you held TOO tight? I believe being POSSESSIVE is a different thing from TRUSTING. If you trust the person, let him/her be himself/herself. Kasi definitely, he/she will adjust also as much as you adjust yourself. "I don’t know why YOU did this, I gave you my time, my love, my life and my all. Still you seemed not to be contended with what you have with me,..": - were you able to allow the other party to give you what he/she has? Did it ever occur to you that maybe your other half was likewise doing the same? Giving you time, love and life? I say it's simply selfish to think that you were giving more than the other party considering you have been together for months already... Eniwei, I have been carried away. Sori naman. But I do hope I have shared you something worth pondering on. And whatever happens, try not to use the horse's patch (or whatever they call it.) Cheers bro! This experience, if non-occuring, is something worth learning from. :) Hey, I feel your pain. I felt the same pain before. So I said, “I won’t allow this to happen to me anymore.” But then it happend again, and again and again. So the “F”, di ba? I put the blame on him, I quite refused to acknowledge that there was something wrong on my side. Until, I thought about looking at things from a third person’s perspective – the viewer, the uninvolved one, the audience.

I then realized that, damn, may kasalanan din pala ako. I HAVE BEEN possesive. I have been paranoid. I have been insensitive. I have been way too protective. I made my partner(s) loose their confidence in me kasi I was too scared of loosing them – I showed them something different, imbes of what I really intended them to see and feel.

I hope you wouldn’t mind if I quote:

“a friend told me that if you found a love that made you change in a good way, hold on tight to that love for its the kind of love that is worth keeping…”
– maybe you held TOO tight? I believe being POSSESSIVE is a different thing from TRUSTING. If you trust the person, let him/her be himself/herself. Kasi definitely, he/she will adjust also as much as you adjust yourself.

“I don’t know why YOU did this, I gave you my time, my love, my life and my all. Still you seemed not to be contended with what you have with me,..”:
– were you able to allow the other party to give you what he/she has? Did it ever occur to you that maybe your other half was likewise doing the same? Giving you time, love and life? I say it’s simply selfish to think that you were giving more than the other party considering you have been together for months already…

Eniwei, I have been carried away. Sori naman. But I do hope I have shared you something worth pondering on. And whatever happens, try not to use the horse’s patch (or whatever they call it.)

Cheers bro! This experience, if non-occuring, is something worth learning from. :)

]]> By: scorpionights2005 http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-89 scorpionights2005 Fri, 07 Nov 2008 01:27:41 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-89 Have gone through the same thing and knows what and how you are feeling right now...they say that you can not have it all...you've got a new baby but you've lost someone you love...but life goes on and you have to move on and besides you deserve someone better and he/she is out there somewhere....hope you find your love before christmas because I know how lonely it can be without one...Cheers!!! Marami ka namang barkada and friends dude who loves you and you've got your family too. Tagay pa!!! hahaha Have gone through the same thing and knows what and how you are feeling right now…they say that you can not have it all…you’ve got a new baby but you’ve lost someone you love…but life goes on and you have to move on and besides you deserve someone better and he/she is out there somewhere….hope you find your love before christmas because I know how lonely it can be without one…Cheers!!!

Marami ka namang barkada and friends dude who loves you and you’ve got your family too.

Tagay pa!!! hahaha

]]> By: yayanne http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-86 yayanne Thu, 06 Nov 2008 21:00:34 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-86 ouch! who's that girl nmn kya! she's a loser! :-) be strong! maybe you didn't deserve her, coz God reserved someone that is meant for you...like what i'm waiting also... ;-( You're not alone...so, go on and let's rock the world!!! ouch! who’s that girl nmn kya! she’s a loser! :-) be strong! maybe you didn’t deserve her, coz God reserved someone that is meant for you…like what i’m waiting also… ;-( You’re not alone…so, go on and let’s rock the world!!!

]]> By: eric derey http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-80 eric derey Wed, 05 Nov 2008 10:15:25 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-80 i can share the same sentiment..i am on your side dude... i can share the same sentiment..i am on your side dude…

]]> By: mark http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-79 mark Wed, 05 Nov 2008 08:54:00 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-79 wow...its sad... but dont worry....everything has a purpose and soon you will be loved truly also... wow…its sad…

but dont worry….everything has a purpose and soon you will be loved truly also…

]]> By: einnod http://thinking-out-loud.info/you-broke-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-78 einnod Wed, 05 Nov 2008 08:19:39 +0000 http://thinking-out-loud.info/blog/?p=476#comment-78 Just be brave, world has lot to offer for you... always think that "A person knows how to love deserves to be loved" you deserve it. godspeed Just be brave, world has lot to offer for you…
always think that “A person knows how to love deserves to be loved”

you deserve it.

godspeed

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